And something other thing, it is okay if you do not wish to be a single mom. I'm sure everybody else claims "Just have a young child on your own!" But it sounds like that is not the full life you desire, and that is really okay. (needless to say if it does appear advisable that you you, absolutely do it.) posted by DestinationUnknown at 1:04 PM on March 3, 2013 [1 favorite]
If i possibly could redirect after reading Philemon's reaction:
You will find those that certainly will say which you may need to settle only a little. And yes, it will be possible that being an excessive amount of a perfectionist does get in many people's means in terms of finding a mate. ...